Wednesday, May 22, 2019

90 Year Old Love


Chapter One: Corny Love
Ninety years is a long time to go without falling in love. Maybe too long. Only ten years shy of a century. A lifetime for some, multiple for others who are stolen too soon.
Ninety years is almost too much to comprehend in one day’s worth of appreciation through contemplation. Ninety years is a whale of a time, 32,850 days to be exact, a Blue whale to be specific. You can’t explain ninety years because you can only experience it and if you are lucky enough to experience it you probably don’t have the energy to even try to make sense of it all. Ninety years is a substantial number of decades to gather a suitcase full of memories that you carry with you wherever you go.
How many people will you meet in ninety years? Tens of thousands without a doubt. Think of all the hearts you have touched in ninety years and all the people who have made an impression on yours. How many faces have you seen in ninety years? Millions without a doubt. Think of all the throngs of people who you have seen but never met. What would you do with your ninety years? If you are among the fortunate ones, you will get the opportunity to put your dreams into practice. If you never accomplish what you set out to do with your life after ninety years, who cares? We all end up blending into one massive, ever-growing plume of dust, cast in whatever direction the wind is blowing.
And you won. You already won by making it to ninety years old. It’s all gravy after that. As the kids might say, your life has been lit; both the candles on your previous ninety birthday cakes and you as a person. You are probably more enlightened than most people in Hollywood who do transcendental meditation, write a travel blog about their adventures with their Yorkshire Terrier, Leo, and are on the Keto diet which they will suavely sprinkle into countless conversations.
Would you take the advice of a ninety-year-old person? They have got to know something to make it that far; something is working in their favor, some sort of weird potion of mysticism. WWANYOD; What Would A Ninety-Year-Old Do? 
How well does a ninety-year-old know themselves though? They must still be learning new things every day, having fresh and unique experiences, finding new flavors of frozen yogurt to sample if you will (have a delicious, refreshing cold snack on a muggy summer day). They are probably still learning new things about who they are as a person and what makes them tick too. Imagine that; ninety years old and you are still growing, becoming a more whole and well-rounded individual. You are ninety years old and your journey is not complete. You are ninety years old and you have a page full of items left on your personal to-do list.
Your to-do list is what keeps you going at that age. It gets you out of bed in the morning and gives you a thump on the old behind. Most of your friends and family have moved on to another form of life if you believe in that kind of stuff. Maybe they were reincarnated as the young frozen yogurt attendee that helped you at the frozen yogurt place that you were metaphorically sampling new life experiences at.
There’s no way around it, ninety is pretty dang old no matter how you slice the pizza pie that’s just how the cookie crumbles. But it’s not too old to fall in love. It’s never too old to fall in love. Cue the corny love music, let’s say Time After Time by Cyndi Lauper.
Chapter Two: The Story Begins
Hank was always content. He had never found love in his ninety years on the planet but every morning he woke up with a smile on his face and a fire in his belly. Hank was a man strictly set in his routines. His alarm had been set for 6:00 AM since he was studying Economics at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign.
Hank was known throughout the hallowed halls of both Urbana and Champaign as being perhaps the biggest party animal on campus. He was also the middle linebacker on the football team, class president and the ultimate teacher’s pet. One time he agreed to mow a teacher’s lawn every two weeks for the summer to get his grade on a paper bumped up from a B plus to an A minus. The promise fell through after a month, once the final grades for the class had been submitted, as Hank was never one to keep his word.
One story from Hank’s halcyon days as a Fighting Illini stands out particularly in the Etch A Sketch of his aged mind. He was out water skiing on his fraternity brother, Todd Mulgren’s, boat. Now this wasn’t just any water ski run that you might see a water skier of typical talents and state of mind attempt. This was a water ski run for the ages; that is, if a squad of Billabong board shorted bros were keeping track of the great water ski runs in history via messenger seagulls. Hank seemed to do everything in those days for the ages. He had a certain timelessness about him; a throwback in a time where every day was Throwback Thursday. His stranglehold on sleight of hand was unbridled, unassuming and often unwarranted; we’ll delve deeper into that banana cream pie a little bit later.
Back to the water ski run. Like I was saying, this was most certainly a water ski run for the ages. They used to call the body of water west of the twin cities and the university Kaufman Lake until Hank got a crack at the beast. The instant the final nail had been smashed into the aquatic coffin and Hank the Hammer was all through with his jet ski ride for the ages the locals began dubbing it the Lake of Champions, that is once they could find their colorfully patterned bucket hats that they had tossed in the air in celebration like the most chill graduation of all time.  
It began with a simple challenge. Hank, never being one to back down from a measly challenge, accepted without deliberation or concern for his safety or that of anyone in the vicinity of the speed boat. Hank laughed in the face of even the boldest of challenges. He was even less likely to back down from a challenge than he was to keep his word. This specific challenge was handed down by his fraternity’s patriarchy of Chads, Alpha Omega and Johnson, Milner and Suiza. The challenge was modest in the eyes of the Chads; do everything you can to have the most epic water ski run of all time. Let’s just say, the Chads were not disappointed which is their typical feeling barometer reading.
Chapter Three: The Patriarchy of Chads
The story of the origin of the Patriarchy of Chads is a tale older than time.
It was a dark, stormy Tuesday afternoon in late November. Multi-colored leaves were falling faster than the cumulative GPA of Alpha Omega as classes amped up.
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